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How long will it take?

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Time is always relative ...

We generally discuss this aspect in an initial conversation, as a 1:1 setting allows clarifying any point of interest quickly and factually.

As a preview for such a meeting, here's what I can say on this website:

The only honest answer here must be diplomatic.

No one can see precisely into the future — the web of dependencies is too vast. It would be neither right nor defensible to make concrete promises or suggest everything will quickly improve and you'll have no problems tomorrow. That would be false.

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Most clues for a sustainable answer to this question are already in the surrounding texts and info I've provided. Summarizing them paints this realistic picture:

  • It is not about healing, but about integration. This point significantly shortens any known approach that aims to bring about change retrospectively. It is undoubtedly beneficial and right to work through unresolved traumas and clarify their causes. However, this is very time-consuming and cannot be directly linked to your situation. This requires a further process that recursively reorganizes your life on a hypothetical basis in a “what if?” sequence. A life you have not lived. With a connection to your current environment that is only of limited use, because the “happy feelings” you have when something would have happened as it supposedly should have do not get you anywhere. This realization may liberate you in a certain way, but it immediately pushes you into the realm of guilt and thus “away from your path.” Remember: “We can no longer change what has been. From now on, we can only do better.” So we won't need years or countless months, as would be the case with long-term therapy. However, you will resonate with the content conveyed for a very long time and constantly work on yourself on your own responsibility.

  • Another aspect that has a positive impact on the time frame to be expected is that I provide you with personalized attention. In line with my pricing structure, I invest a great deal of time and resources in you, as I only work with a very small number of clients at any one time. In this context, I have pointed out several times that I do not scale, and this aspect, if at all, will only be found on my learning portal.

  • Some people initially find my characteristics unpleasant, but they are very helpful for the process: Nothing is taboo; nothing is stigmatized; everything is important, right, urgent, but sometimes perhaps not necessary;
    everything that can be said can also be said aloud. These characteristics are surrounded by neutrality and loyalty.

  • In general, it can be said that time is always a critical factor. Not because everything has to happen faster, better, and bigger these days—no, that's not what I mean. In the sense I am referring to, time is both relative and absolute between you and me, depending on our respective perspectives. This simply means that your perception of circumstances and facts will sometimes differ significantly from mine. This is a circumstance that is omnipresent but can be reconciled.

  • If you can internalize that success is voluntary, you will save yourself a lot of time thinking about why you should do something for yourself.

  • The faster you learn to look for the right questions rather than the right answers, the more time you will save.

  • If you can answer “yes” to the two questions above, then you can save yourself more time.

  • If you can accept that we are partners and not just emptiers, teachers, and students, then you are already on the right track, because you have already internalized that you yourself are the solution to the problem and that you shape your own processes.
    I ‘only’ set the boundaries that mark a swift path.

  • If you decide to opt for the optional dynamic results backup, you can significantly expand your field of work after just a few hours, because you will be working in parallel with unreflected reflections and projections, which are the subject of my notes.
    As described below, this option requires an additional investment in yourself, and you should be sure of yourself so that your investment does not turn into a cost.

Was könnte nun eine konkrete Zeitvorgabe sein?

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... even if you look closer.

To work concretely and goal-oriented from the start, I usually suggest a timeframe of 10 working hours.

After that, we decide together as partners how to proceed.

Content-wise, we'll roughly follow this:

Anamnesis: Mapping the space and dimensions we'll work in.

Isolating secularized misconceptions.

Aligning these misconceptions with your cognitive frameworks.

Sketching the dependency web.

Marking the environment.

Identifying optimal connections.

Selection and implementation.

A "tight," emotionless outline, I know. But it's practical — this is about you, and pretty words or promises help less here.

It emerges fluidly from our conversations.

For affected parties who don't feel directly addressed, the process runs analogously. What happens on one side has parallel consequences on the other.

It's essentially the relaxed basis of probability calculation:

"Something always happens."

Just from a different perspective...

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